You Can't Have A Rainbow Without A Little Rain

Some people are just too afraid of getting hurt when it comes to love. They just tend to ignore this kind of stuff because they are just too scared to face the reality of falling in love. Maybe they’ve been hurt in the past and have a strong fear that this will happen again. The problem is — even if you hide your feelings just because you have that fear of hurting, you end up hurting anyway because you didn’t try. There is always that regret you feel once you miss out on the opportunity of actually falling in love with the right person because you just let them go. It’s better to just try it, if you think it’s the right thing to do. Don’t let fear control you, because it’s fear that is stopping you from doing the things that you might just want to do. Facing your fears would make you stronger and a better person than you are today. If you don’t want to get hurt, then you are a coward in any situation that you think that might end up hurting you. Everyone gets hurt sometimes even surprisingly. Its normal to get hurt but hurting can actually make you stronger. It can also help you face the reality of falling in love in an amazing but hurtful way. It’s a fact that falling in love might end up hurting you but that’s not a reason to give up on someone just because you are too afraid to feel the pain. Life is an adventure and you have to explore life in order for you to experience the reality. So don’t hold back your feeling especially to the one you like or love. It’s much better to try and get hurt than to actually avoid trying and feel regret. Because in this way at least you know you tried and you don’t have to wonder what life would have been like if you didn’t. All the way through your life there will be decisions to be made. But dwelling on the “what ifs” becomes a form of mind torture and keep you trapped in the past. Because you can’t help wondering what if you had just tried it? What could have happened? Would I actually feel happiness? So if you feel it’s right, then just grab the opportunity. “Seize the Day” and tell them how you feel. It may surprise you how they respond. In the end, no matter the outcome, you can’t get it wrong. If their response is “wow! I feel the same” then you are on the way to discovering a new relationship. And if their response is “no thanks” then you have gained from the experience and are one step closer to finding “the perfect one of your dreams”. Even though you may get hurt in the process, falling in love always takes you to another richer experience.