Taurus

Who and what is a Taurus? Taurean are extremely loyal,faithful,caring and loving. They are the best zodiac sign for being a lover though sometimes they don't know how to express their emotions because they are keeping it to themselves. What is loyal? Some describes loyal as someone who don't talk nor going out with girls,let alone being flirty but this is how Taurean describes being loyal. They are the creatures who are out going. Friendly when you get to know them. For female gender,they will have lots of guys friends and vice versa but they know their limitation/border and will always go back to their partner no matter what. Taurean loves freedom. So when Taurus' partners don't allow them to do some things, they tend to do things without telling it. Not they want to cheat, but because they don't like to be controlled and moreover they want to avoid arguments and do things that they want to do. With Taurean, you can't control them. It takes a lot to be patient with Taurus.

Taurean are amazing people. They stand out among others but due to this, always their partners feel insecure. It is their nature to be like that. To them, if people can't accept them at their worst, then people don't deserve them at their best. Taurus ain't boastful. They are the creature who will get things done when they said it. It is just matter of time.


I'm sure everyone knows how girls tend to "think too much", "make up stories" in their minds, and of coz, blaming everything on the guys even though they've done nothing wrong - yet.

You see, every time a girl gets jealous, or sulk over a matter, the last thing she wants is for you to prove her right (although she doesn't want to be proven wrong either). But trust me, she wants to be proven wrong more than she wants to be proven right (although it never seems that way). Confusing, I know.

For example, when your GF gets jealous of you getting too closely with another girl (which you have absolutely nothing going on with), the last thing she wants is for you to prove her right, that you are having something going on with the other girl.

Let me paint the picture clearer for you.

My ex gf has gotten jealous over other girls numerous times that it's impossible for me to keep count. Yes, she is that insecure, but of coz i blame it on myself for not being able to give her the emotional security that she needed. But i would like to stress about her also for being over sensitive and insecure. After getting to know this, i've done my best to stay away from girls. Even girls whom i know dearly. My BFF which i have never have anything going on with her, all for the person whom i love dearly, Keng Eileen. I even try not to mix around with other friends anymore. Thus i only stick with 2 of my best friends. Aszam Ahmad Malique and Nazirky a.k.a Bros. Yes, i admit my ex gf doesn't like Aszam coz she thinks he brings bad influence upon me,but let me tell you something. I can differentiate between right and wrong, altho i know he has done a lot of wrong before this, but i befriended with people whom i can trust,people who would be there for me when im in need,when im down. These 2 gentlemen are the one.I don't need a lot of friends. Two of them could make me happy, would understand me when im down, would help me when im in need. The people who are willing to go thru anything for me.

So now let's make it even clearer.

Im someone whom nice looking, sociable, smart, and overall, what most girls would be attracted to. The thing about having guys like me as a BF is that, there are bound to be other girls lurking around trying their luck in which i didn't try my best to repent them away.

So trying to reason with my ex gf regarding this matter was a vain as it ended up into a heated argument like always. Things got bad that eventually both of us headed with our own ways, which i felt it was a blessing in disguise. At least we're now both free of our own emotional torture.

Back to the topic, girls doesn't want to be proven right.

So things have ended quite some time now and we've both moved on. But the question is, was I right or wrong for being myself and her with "over thinking" mindset?

I guess it's easier for to understand that no girls wants to be proven right. The reason they get jealous or insecure is because they care too much about you that it scares them. Yes, they might not be handling their emotions in a proper way, but guesss it's my part to help her. It's my part to show my loved ones that it is okay to feel jealous, that it is okay to "over think" things. But most importantly, it is my part to prove them wrong. For that, i lost a diamond while searching for rocks.